Posted in Anxiety, Experience, happiness, Improvement, Inner Battles, Life, Past, Peace, Personality, Positivity, psychology, Random Thoughts

Uncertainity – A Devilish Angel !!!

We all have been through a phase where we can not take an important decision due to confusion about its future consequences. These moments of confusion appear like hell to us. Whether we plan to the very core, drawing every detailed flowchart possible, we are still not sure about the future. And this stressful ambiguity drastically affects our present. 

In times like these, we wish that we could know our future. That we could predict what was gonna happen and make choices according to it. That knowing about our destiny beforehand will lead us to success. But, ask this question to yourself, will knowing the fate in advance actually prove to be useful ? I don’t think so.

The Ultimate Divine Power which created the universe and us, its puppets, built the specific rules of past, present and future for some specific reasons. Past is meant to be forgotten as it is just a black hole of negativity and futile efforts which will suck you to the depth from which no ladder could help you to come back up. Present is meant to be enjoyed to the fullest, because every single moment passing is turning into past which can not be changed or altered or granted back. Future, well, it was meant for hoping for the best but simultaneously being prepared for the worst. 

Now, coming back to my point, this uncertain future, which frustrates us so much, is meant to be unknown. Just imagine, what if you knew what will your birthday surprise was gonna be? Will you be that excited when you receive it ?What if you knew about your exam results ? Will you put efforts and hardwork if you already knew you were going to fail or pass ? All the zeal, excitement and energy, which are the icing on the cake of life, will vanish. And no one likes a plain, tasteless cake. 

The very essence of this life is elation, the frenzy fuzzy feeling you have in your stomach before something important is going to happen. The uphill-battle which we fight to achieve our goals makes our existence worthwhile. If this uncertainity about the future is substracted from us, then we would be nothing but walking corpses on the face of earth with no purpose of living whatsoever.

So, I want to say to all my readers, that uncertainity may seem to be a devil, but its that angel who fills your life with enthusiasm, energy and fieriness which makes us keen to live the life king-size. Without this uncertainity, we will be just like a talking, walking, eating, sleeping zombie. And nobody wants to be thatπŸ˜‰

Therfore enjoy this uncertainity, live your life to the fullest, be happy, spread love and stay blessed 😊

Posted in Experience, happiness, Improvement, Kindness, Life, Peace, Personality, Positivity, psychology, Random Thoughts, Self-satisfaction, values

What Is Life ?

Every philosophical text starts with a question – what is life ? And those texts have an answer mirroring to the author’s experiences and perceptions.

According to me, the answer to this question can never be subjective, universal, exact truth. Just like when we see ourselves in the lake, we see our own reflection, similarly, we answer this very common but deep question according to what we experience, what we feel and what we believe.

Everyone says, life begins in the womb. I think, life begins when our babbles turn into meaningful words, when our feet start touching the ground, when we start loving and hating, and most importantly, when our senses start feeling every touch, gaze, voice and emotion possibly existing in the whole universe.

To a child born with a silver spoon in its mouth, life is a mesmerizing merry-land where the whole universe does not have a single percentage of negativity. To a child who was born and brought-up on the road, life is a struggle-filled cobweb, with an unexpected catastrophe at every turn which challenges and applies the law of ‘survival of the fittest’.

I have always heard people saying that childhood is the most simple and happy period in anyone’s existence, without any complications, only embedding fun and frolic which is very true and believable. But just think, for a moment, about a child of a drunkard man who regularly beats his wife and the helpless child can do nothing but watch his mother’s wounds with tears in his eyes. Does that childhood looks as beautiful as this period is labelled to be ?

The second most generalized statement our ears are habitual of hearing is that, marriage means end of freedom and ‘fun-filled’ independent life. This too in some cases is right. But again, think about a prostitute, who was forced into this ruthless business, but who managed to elope with her lover, and finally her life-partner, slowly but steadily, healed all her mental wounds with love and care. Now does this marriage sounds miserable to you ?

We often hear our parents or grandparents saying that arranged marriages are better than love marriages. In many situations they are correct because they know better. But does this also apply to the marital rape victim whose love was snatched from her just to bind her with a beast who doesn’t even know how to respect the consent of a woman ?

We, the youth, always perceive that our parents are orthodox or backwards, who can never understand our lifestyle and challenges. Now, I can not disagree to this too. But what about those parents who supported their child’s dreams and wants, even  by going against the social norms ? Does this sound like orthodoxy ?

I can go on and on proving many such conceptions very shallow. There are thousands of exceptions, whether positive or negative. Do you know what all this contemplation brought me to ? Well, it brought me to a conclusion. It made me understand that nothing in this life has an exact definition. No one in this whole damn world has the power to confine life in a few words. Everyone just frames a definition and portray their own mind and call it life.

So, I just want to say to all my readers that never judge anyone’s way of living. You don’t know what they are going through. You can not define any situation or scenario of this life. Nor you can just force your perception on somebody and expect them to agree with it. Life is beautiful without judgement and generalization. Offer a helping hand and caring heart to everyone but if you can’t, then atleast do not judge and mock. Be happy, spread love and stay blessed !! πŸ˜ŠπŸ˜ŠπŸ˜˜πŸ˜˜πŸ˜‡πŸ˜‡ 

Posted in Experience, happiness, Improvement, Inner Battles, Kindness, Life, Love, Past, Peace, Personality, Positivity, Random Thoughts, self-respect, Self-satisfaction

The Grey Soul..!!


This is my attempt at the application Notegraphy.

Will be posting the “quote stuff” more.

Please share your views on how do you all like it.

P.S. Aaravi is my pen name..!! Please do comment your views ☺️☺️

Stay happy and stay blessed ☺️

Posted in Life, Random Thoughts, Sadness

What is Loneliness ?

We all know the literal meaning of loneliness. But is that it ? I don’t think so.

You are not lonely when no one is around you, you are lonely when, in a crowd of thousands of people, there is no one with whom you can talk and share your feelings. You are lonely when there no one who understands you completely. You are lonely when the closest person to your heart fails to grasp the meaning and feeling behind your words. You are lonely when the people whom you helped once, just disappear when you need them. You become lonely when the only soul who had the throne of your heart is snatched from you by God. You are lonely when the memories give you tears of gloom instead of tears of happiness. But above everything, you are lonely when you yourself don’t know what’s going on in your mind, when you don’t know why you are upset, when you don’t know why are seeing only the dim corner of misery when the whole room is lit with joy. You are the most lonely when you don’t know who you are anymore, when you don’t know what the hell is wrong with you, why are you hurting yourself and your near and dear ones. And trust me, if you are in this unfortunate situation, you can never be a positive influence or a soothing touch of love even for your loved ones, let alone other beings.

And after contemplating all this, I concluded that I love being ALONE, but I would love to die rather than being LONELY..!!

Posted in Experience, happiness, Hindi Poetry, Improvement, Life, Love, Memories, Nature, Peace, Poems, Positivity, Self-satisfaction

Laapata..!!

Hello readers…this is my attempt at Hindi poem writing…do have a look and share your views πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚

Mann laapata hona chahta hai,
Jheel ki lehron mein,
Raat ki meheron mein,
Bachpan ki chhuttiyon ki nehron mein.
Mann laapata hona chahta hai,
Baadlon ke garajne mein,
Boondon ke barasne mein,
Dhara ki pyaas bujhne mein.
Mann laapata hona chahta hai,
Sard hawaon mein,
Dhoop ki nigaahon mein,
Barf ki baahon mein.
Mann laapata hona chahta hai,
Patton ki sarsarahat mein,
Aandhi ki tez aahat mein,
Pedon ki ghabrahat mein.
Mann laapata hona chahta hai,
In sabhi khubsoorat palon mein,
Jeevan ke har mausam mein.
Mann laapata hona chahta hai.

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Posted in Experience, Friendship, Improvement, Life, loyalty, Past, Peace, Positivity, psychology, relationships, self-respect

Part-time Strangers..??

Friendship is something that we cherish till our last breath. But sometimes it can be very knotty. 

A friend of mine was very distraught as one of her close friends told her that they can talk only personally, where no familiar faces or in our Indian language, ‘Pehchaan wale’, were to be seen. That ‘so-called’ friend had just offered her a ‘part-time friendship’, where no one could ever know that they even know each other, let alone talk. 

Now, what do you all think this led to. My friend, that lovely soul, started thinking that she was doing something wrong. Why would anyone want to hide such a beautiful and precious thing as friendship ? This thought captured her mind in a never-ending cobweb of guilt and ambiguity. 

And what do I feel ? Well if a person is not confident or strong enough to accept you in front of everyone as a important and close fella, then he or she is not worthy to be given the title of ‘friend’. Friendship is a very pristine and wonderful connection between two souls. There is no need to cloud or veil it. 

So, all my amigos out there, there is no such thing as part-time friends as that will obviously mean that you will also be part-time strangers, and true friends can never act like strangers, whatever the situation may be. Don’t tolerate such gibberish and rubbish babble from anyone. Respect yourself and your amity, spread love, be happy and stay blessed..!! ☺️☺️